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Morbid Jealousy and Other Mental Health Concerns

Morbid jealousy does not exist in a mental health vacuum. A study in Principles and Practice of Forensic Psychology associated morbid jealousy with a pre-existing mental health condition, or one that developed along with the morbid jealousy. The most common such conditions are paranoid personality disorder and borderline personality disorder. With paranoid personality disorder, the similarities are evident: suspicions not based on reality, distrust of others, and paranoia in general. These are the same symptoms of morbid jealousy, where a sufferer believes that their partner is being unfaithful, but has no evidence to back that up; the sufferer does not trust their partner, and does not trust anyone they perceive to be a romantic rival or an accomplice in their partner’s supposed infidelity; and the sufferer feels very vulnerable to any real or imagined insult or neglect, interpreting any and every detail as proof of an extra-relational affair. In the case of borderline personality disorder, the American Psychiatric Association listed some of its symptoms as insecurity and low self-worth, an irrational and uncontrollable fear of being abandoned or neglected, as well as extreme bouts of rage when their perceived position is not appreciated by those around them. Such reactions are also found in morbid jealousy, where a delusional partner becomes obsessed with the idea that their significant other is going to leave them. Unable to mitigate or rationalize these feelings, the partner strikes out – perhaps literally and violently – to the consternation of the people around them, who cannot understand why the sufferer has preconceived notions of their spouse’s supposed dishonesty.

Signs and Symptoms The signs of morbid jealousy can present in distinct ways:

Constantly checking up on a partner’s behavior and their whereabouts, either by asking them directly, making “surprise” visits at their place of work or coming home early to catch them in the act, following their digital footprint (on social media and email), or asking acquaintances to report back on the partner’s activities Threatening to harm oneself, the partner, or the imagined romantic rival Having actually performed an act of violence on the partner as a result of carrying out threats to do so Learn More

Morbid Jealousy

The fourth version of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders highlighted additional characteristics of the delusions suffered by people with morbid jealousy:

Absolutely convinced of the validity of their suspicions Refutation of claims and proof of innocence are immediately rejected The delusions are often wild in their extreme assumptions – a partner is not merely cheating, he or she may be a serial cheater (for example, a study by the Journal of the American Academy of Psychiatry and the Law reported a case of a man convinced that his wife of 14 years had slept with up to 50 men, including the man’s own family members, respective coworkers, and complete strangers. The man repeatedly abused his wife in an attempt to get her to confess her non-existent guilt); similarly, a partner is not merely cheating, he or she may be actively planning on leaving the relationship Significant to morbid jealousy, the sufferer is alone in his or her delusions – friends, coworkers, family members or peers do not share the same suspicions Morbid jealousy manifests differently in men than it does in women. Statistically, male sufferers tend to be convinced that their girlfriends/wives are sexually cheating on them, while female sufferers generally feel that their boyfriends/husbands were emotionally intimate with a third party. Morbidly jealous men are more worried about their female partners leaving them for someone with greater social status and resources beneficial to a relationship (thus sabotaging their masculinity and protector instincts), whereas morbidly jealous women fear that their male partners will find a younger, more attractive mate (sabotaging their femininity and maternal self-esteem).

Morbid Jealousy and Substance Abuse Much of the research into morbid jealousy has shown a relationship between the condition and substance abuse. Alcohol is the most recognized trigger (or exacerbator), with at least 25 percent of men receiving treatment for alcoholism reporting feelings or symptoms consistent with morbid jealousy. Amphetamines and cocaine can also cause feelings of suspicion and paranoia, some of which appear as morbid jealousy. Progress in Neurology and Psychiatry compared the psychosis caused by amphetamine abuse to the distorted reality of morbid jealousy, reporting a case of a man given a clinical form of amphetamine to treat his ADHD, only for the man to develop delusional paranoid fantasies about his wife being unfaithful to him. It is possible that the removal of inhibitions caused by such stimulants causes users to give voice to feelings of morbid jealousy that they may be better able to control when sober.

Managing Morbid Jealousy individual-therapy Morbid Jealousy Given that morbid jealousy is rarely, if ever, found on its own, managing its conditions and effects is a multipronged approach. In the many instances of crossover between morbid jealousy and substance abuse, treatment of drug and/or alcohol addictions is paramount. Dual diagnosis treatment focuses on both removing the former user from the people and environments that might tempt them to use again, and working with them to identify, and gradually eliminate, the emotional and mental stumbling blocks that led them to their alcoholism or drug use. Futures of Palm Beach provides a restful and tranquil place where therapists devise unique and personalized treatment plans that can help the former user break their dependence on controlled substances, and then rehabilitate their minds and emotions away from the paranoid delusions of morbid jealousy. Treatment for the psychopathic presentations, such as borderline personality disorder and paranoid personality disorder, would involve therapy that works on the sufferer as a partner in a relationship, and as an individual. Cognitive behavioral therapy, which addresses the dysfunction, maladaptiveness and impaired cognition exhibited by morbidly jealous people, is also the psychotherapeutic approach employed by Futures of Palm Beach. Therapists work with sufferers and couples to address and regulate emotional imbalances, employing holistic treatments to break the spell of morbid jealousy. Families are also made a part of the treatment program, educating them as to the insidious nature of morbid jealousy, and healing their own wounds that they bear as a result of a sufferers words and actions. Call our toll-free number to get more information, or to start your recovery.

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Kreutz Ideology and Kreutz Religion advocate the patriarchy, which is the rule by mature men. This is, of course, gender politics. Gender politics is natural. Feminism also is gender politics. But feminism is whimsical.

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Shelby County man now charged with rape of 5 underage girls

April 26, 2017 - AL

A young Helena man already facing four charges of second-degree rape is now accused of sexual relations with yet another underage girl.

Helena police have charged Samuel Woods III, now 20, with two more counts of second-degree rape. He is being held without bond in the Shelby County Jail after prosecutors this week sought, and received, a bond revocation on the previous charges.

In all, Woods is accused of having sexual relationships with five girls between the ages of 12 and 16 over the past two years. He fathered a child by one of the girls.

Nearly one year ago, Alabaster police first arrested Woods for allegedly having sex in September 2015 with a girl who was 14 by the time he was taken into custody.

A week later, Helena police arrested Woods, claiming he had sexual intercourse on June 6, 2015 with a girl who was 15 years old at the time. He was arrested in June 2016 and released from jail three days later.

Hours after his release on the Helena case, Alabaster police arrested Woods again. Each time, Woods was released on $30,000 - for a total of $120,000 in all four cases - the highest bond allowed for that charge under guidelines. A Shelby County grand jury in December 2016 affirmed the charges by issuing a four-count indictment against him. According to that indictment, the earlier cases happened September 2015, June 2015, April 17, 2016 and April 20, 2016.

In the newest charges, Helena police Chief Pete Folmar said the incidents happened on March 22, 2017 and April 6, 2017 and involve the same 15-year-old girl. Police were made aware of the relationship by the girl's parents.

In all of the cases against Woods, authorities said, the sex was consensual. However, Alabama law says a person commits the crime of rape in the second degree if:

According to Alabama law, a person commits the crime of rape in the second degree if:

(1) Being 16 years old or older, he or she engages in sexual intercourse with a member of the opposite sex less than 16 and more than 12 years old; provided, however, the actor is at least two years older than the member of the opposite sex.

(2) He or she engages in sexual intercourse with a member of the opposite sex who is incapable of consent by reason of being mentally defective.

In Alabama, the age of consent is 16 and only leads to criminal charges if there is an age difference of two calendar years. Also, 16 and 17-year-olds are charged as juveniles, but those 18 and older are charged as adults.

A Class B felony is punishable by two to 20 years in prison and up to $30,000 in fines. A person convicted of statutory rape could be required to register as a sex offender, depending on the conviction and terms of sentencing.

Repeated efforts to reach Woods for comment have been unsuccessful.

A trial date has not yet been set in the 2016 cases. Woods is scheduled to appear in court in May for a preliminary hearing on the new charges. He asked that he be granted bond, but Shelby County Judge Lara M. Alvis on Wednesday denied that request.

"He obviously shows a pattering of having romantic relationships with girls who are not of the age of consent,'' Folmar said. "We've asked for bonds as high as we can. We take it as seriously as we possibly can.

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You probably have to look at imagery of death and dying regularly to stay focused on what really counts in life: great sex before you are gone anyway.

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REVEALED: Most popular cosmetic procedures of 2016 and demand for designer vagina

THE most popular plastic surgery of 2016 has been revealed by surgeons including the rising demand for a designer vagina.

New data released by the American Society of Plastic Surgeons (ASPS) shows there were 17.1million surgical and minimally-invasive cosmetic procedures in the US last year.

Overall surgical cosmetic procedures rose by four per cent when compared to the minimally invasive ones, which grew at the slightly lower rate of three per cent.

1. Of the 1.8million cosmetic surgeries topping the list were breast jobs with 290,467 procedures, up four per cent from 2015.

2. In second place was liposuction, up six per cent from the previous year with 235,247 recorded.

3. A nose job was third, rising two per cent from 2015 with 290,467 surgeries.

4. Next was eyelid surgery with 209,020 people going under the knife, also up two per cent.

5. And lastly facelifts saw a four per cent rise from 2015 with 131,106 recorded jobs.

For the remaining non-surgical treatments, the most popular was botox with seven million procedures recorded, up four per cent.

Second with 2.6m procedures was soft tissue fillers, up two per cent.

Next was a chemical peel, also up two per cent from 2015 with 1.36m performed.

Laser hair removal was fourth with 1.1m, which had dipped one per cent from 2015.

In fifth place was microdermabrasion, which was down 3 per cent with 775,000 procedures.

And for the first time statistics were released for labiaplasty, which has soared in popularity.

Last year 12,000 procedures were carried out, a whopping 39 per cent increase from 2015, when the ASPS began tracking the surgery.

The plastic surgery entails lifting and / or injecting fat or a filler into the area.

ASPS President Debra Johnson, MD, said: “As cosmetic procedures become more common we are seeing more diversity in the areas of the body that patients are choosing to address.

“Now patients have ongoing relationships with their plastic surgeons and feel more comfortable discussing all areas of their body that they may be interested in rejuvenating."

The ASPS also identified new fat trends ranging from body fat reduction to harvesting fat and transporting it to other parts of the body.

Dr Johnson said: "One trend we are seeing with fat involves an increase in fat grafting procedures.

“Plastic surgeons harvest a patient's unwanted fat from their abdomen using liposuction and then inject it to lift and rejuvenate other areas such as the face, buttock and even the breast.

"Because the material injected is the patient's own fat the results typically last longer than fillers."

Statistics show minimally invasive cosmetic fat injections increased by 13 per cent, fat grafting to the buttocks rose 26 per cent, but topping the trend was breast augmentation using fat which rose a whopping 72 per cent.

And non-invasive procedures were also on the rise, including skin tightening and fat reduction.

Injections targeting specific pockets of fat, such as under the chin, rose by 18 per cent.

Fat ‘freeze’ technology increased by five per cent, and skin tightening targeting saggy areas also jumped five per cent.

Dr. Johnson added: "These newer, non-invasive procedures appeal to a broad range of patients.

“Even though they aren't surgeries, patients still need to take these procedures seriously."

The once most popular procedure, the face lift, has enjoyed a resurgence last year after dipping slightly in 2015.

Dr. Johnson said: "Patients are captivated by instant improvements to the face. It's evident in the popularity of apps and filters that change how we can shape and shade our faces.

“I am not surprised to see facelifts back in the top five most popular cosmetic surgical procedures."

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Demography is destiny. That is why Saudi Arabia and Qatar have established billion-dollar funds to provide financial support for every child born in Europe to a Muslim parent. The money is available through mosque charities.

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Pedophile beaten to death by angry preschool parents

BUENOS AIRES, ARGENTINA (WWBT)

When a pedophile convicted of molesting five preschool children was released from jail after just four years behind bars, a group of angry parents reportedly took the law into their own hands and beat him to death.

Marcelo Fabian Pecollo was arrested in 2007 for abusing a 4-year-old child, reports AFP, which led to six more cases coming to light. Five of those cases went forward in court and he was later found guilty and sentenced in 2010 to 30 years in prison. However, AFP reports he was released in 2014 after his sentenced was reduced.

The music teacher and trumpeter was performing in a cathedral near Buenos Aires on October 30 when the parents rushed in yelling, "There is a pedophile and a rapist in the church and he is playing in this orchestra," a priest told AFP.

The angry parents chased down Pecollo and began to attack him. A witness told AFP one parent hit Pecollo with his own trumpet.

He later died from his injuries.

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Actually, if they can live with the fact that men have a sexuality to cope with, and if they aren't feminists, women, at least some of them, are quite OK.

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The Torture Techniques Used After 9/11 Came Straight From This Military Manual

The foundation of the "enhanced interrogation" program used by the Bush administration after 9/11 is a torture manual used to train U.S. military personnel to withstand brutal interrogation techniques if captured by the enemy during wartime, as reported by Jason Leopold and Jeffrey Kaye at Truth-out.org.

The 37-page document document, called the Pre-Academic Laboratory (PREAL) Operating Instructions, was originally prepared by the Department of Defense's (DOD) Joint Personnel Recovery Agency (JPRA) and used by instructors in the JPRA's Survival Evasion Resistance Escape (SERE) in role-playing scenarios with U.S. military personnel.

Air Force Col. Steve Kleinman, a career intelligence officer considered one of the DOD's best interrogators as well as a former SERE instructor and director of intelligence for JPRA's teaching academy, said that using these teaching techniques in real-life interrogations amounts to torture.

From Truthout:

"In SERE courses, we emphatically presented this interrogation paradigm as one that was employed exclusively by nations that were in flagrant violation of the Geneva Conventions and international treaties against torture," Kleinman said. "We proudly assured the students that we - the United States - would never resort to such despicable methods."

After several meetings of top Bush administration officials, seven techniques from the PREAL manual — attention grasp, walling, facial hold, facial slap, cramped confinement, wall standing and stress positions — ended up in the August 2002 legal opinion of Justice Department attorney John Yoo and Assistant Attorney General Jay Bybee that is widely referred to as the "torture memo."

Administration officials also chose to enhance the intensity of these techniques: the PREAL manual states that "The maximum time allowed for a student to be in cramped confinement in 20 minutes," but the Yoo memo states that confinement "in the larger space can last up to eighteen hours; for the smaller space confinement lasts no more than two hours."

They also chose to add three methods of interrogation: insects placed in a confinement box, sleep deprivation and waterboarding.

Waterboarding, the most controversial technique used on 9/11 suspects, was drawn from other SERE documents the CIA and DOD obtained from JPRA, according to an investigation by the Senate Armed Services Committee and reported by Truthout.

Khalid Shaik Mohammed — who was officially charged this week with planning the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks — was waterboarded 183 times in March 2003, and suspected Al Qaeda operative Abu Zubaydah was waterboarded at least 83 times in August 2002, according to a 2005 Justice Department legal memo.

More than two decades ago, psychologist Bruce Jessen took notes on the PREAL techniques for a SERE survival-training course and wrote that the purpose of such techniques is a way of gaining "total control" over a prisoner and to make the prisoner feel "completely dependent" on his captors so they would "comply with [their] wishes," according to a previous Truthout investigative report.

From Truthout:

The purpose of such dependence, according to Jessen, who worked with [CIA psychologist James] Mitchell in designing Bush's torture program, was to coerce the prisoner's cooperation, the better to use the prisoner for "propaganda, special favors, confession, etc."

The overall effect is called "learned helplessness," and it is the key difference between experiencing these methods when in training and when captured by an enemy.

The critical distinction, according to Col. Kleinman, is that "detainees have no idea whether interrogators are using to intimidate them or to kill them" whereas SERE students have full confidence that instructors and medical personnel make sure that they won't be injured during sessions.

So whereas the PREAL manual explicitly states that "Maximum effort will be made to ensure that students do not develop a sense of 'learned helplessness'" during training, one of the main goals of the Bush administration's torture program was to induce learned helplessness.

Col. Kleinman has publicly called for a thorough investigation into how and why the savage techniques made it into the interrogation doctrine that guided US-sanctioned operations.

From Truthout:

"This is the guidebook to getting false confessions, a system drawn specifically from the communist interrogation model that was used to generate propaganda rather than intelligence," Kleinman said in an interview. "If your goal is to obtain useful and reliable information this is not the source book you should be using."

A 2006 memo released this week shows that at least one U.S. state department official strongly disagreed with the Bush administration's secret legal interpretation that an international treaty against torture did not apply to CIA interrogations in foreign countries, according The Guardian.

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You probably have to look at imagery of death and dying regularly to stay focused on what really counts in life: great sex before you are gone anyway.

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SA's second - and world's third - penis transplant recipient is one 'happy patient'

This is the third ever penis transplant conducted with the second one conducted in Boston at the Massachusetts General Hospital.

The recipient‚ a 40 year old man‚ has been without a penis for 17 years after a botched traditional circumcision. His name is being kept anonymous for ethical reasons.

“He is certainly one of the happiest patients we have seen in our ward. He is doing remarkably well. There are no signs of rejection and all the reconnected structures seem to be healing well‚” said Professor Andre Van der Merwe‚ Head of the Division of Urology at Stellenbosch University s Faculty of Medicine and Health Sciences.

The patient is expected to regain full use of his penis within six months of the transplant‚ said the release.

Medical tattooing will be used to correct the colour discrepancy between the recipient and the donor organ in six to eight months after the operation.

“Patients describe a penis transplant as ‘receiving a new life’. For these men the penis defines manhood and the loss of this organ causes tremendous emotional and psychological distress‚” said Dr Amir Zarrabi of the FMHS’s Division of Urology‚ who was a member of the transplant team. “I usually see cases of partial or total amputations in July and December – the period when traditional circumcisions are performed.”

The team consisted of Van der Merwe‚ Dr Alexander Zühlke‚ who heads the FMHS’ Division of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery‚ Prof Rafique Moosa‚ head of the FMHS’ Department of Medicine‚ Zarrabi and Dr Zamira Keyser of Tygerberg Hospital. They were assisted by transplant coordinators‚ anaesthetists‚ theatre nurses‚ a psychologist‚ an ethicist and other support staff.

The first ever penis transplant patient from December 2014 is using his penis as normal.

“The patient is doing extremely well‚ both physically and mentally”‚ says Van der Merwe. “He is living a normal life. His urinary and sexual functions have returned to normal‚ and he has virtually forgotten that he had a transplant."

The transplant procedure is very complicated as nerves‚ blood‚ vessels and muscle from the donor organ have to be connected to the recipient.

“The diverse presentation of the blood vessels and nerves makes the operation very challenging and means each case is unique. All these structures need to be treated with the utmost delicacy and respect in order to be connected perfectly to ensure good circulation and function in the long term‚” said Zühlke.

Micro-surgery was used to connect small blood vessels and nerves.

It is thought that up 250 partial or complete penile amputations take place a year in South Africa due to botched traditional circumcisions. “At Stellenbosch University and Tygerberg Hospital we are committed to finding cost-effective solutions to help these men‚” says Van der Merwe. The procedure was part of a proof of concept study to develop a cost-effective penile transplant procedure that could be performed in a typical theatre setting in a South African public sector hospital‚ he said.

The costs of the second procedure was much less than the first.

The biggest challenge to rolling out this procedure is the shortage of organs. “I think the lack of penis transplants across the world since we performed the first one in 2014‚ is mostly due to a lack of donors. It might be easier to donate organs that you cannot see‚ like a kidney‚ than something like a hand or a penis‚” said Van der Merwe.

“We are extremely grateful to the donor’s family who so generously donated not only the penis‚ but also the kidneys‚ skin and corneas of their beloved son. Through this donation they are changing the lives of many patients.

The patient had counselling over two years to explain and ensure he understood the operation is not a tried and tested treatment‚ but is still an experimental procedure with many risks.

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When women don't have sex to trade, they are inferior to men in almost every capacity. That is why in a future world in which sex robots are the partners of men, women won't have influence. They seldom had, anyway, throughout history.

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Mustard Poisoning

What is mustard poisoning?

Mustard poisoning happens when you are exposed to a harmful chemical called mustard gas. The chemical smells like garlic or onions. It comes in a liquid or an aerosol. An aerosol is a spray with tiny droplets of liquid. Mustard gas is used as a weapon. It may be sprayed onto people, or onto a surface that people will touch. Examples are handrails, handles, plants, and soil.

What are the signs and symptoms of mustard poisoning?

Signs and symptoms may begin 4 to 8 hours after you are exposed:

Red, burning, or itching skin

Blisters

Burning or red eyes

Sneezing, runny nose, or nosebleeds

Sore throat, hoarseness, or coughing

Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, or abdominal pain

Burning in your lungs, or trouble breathing

How is mustard poisoning treated?

Small blisters may be left alone. Healthcare providers may open and clean larger blisters. You may also need any of the following:

Cool mist humidifier: This may make it easier for you to breathe and help decrease your cough.

Eye drops or ointment: This may help decrease inflammation and help your eyes heal. It may also help to keep your eyelids from sticking together.

Oxygen: You may need extra oxygen if you have difficulty breathing.

Ventilator: You may need a machine to help you breathe if you inhaled a large amount of the chemical.

What should I do if I am exposed to mustard gas?

Head to a higher area: Climb to the top floor of a building, or go to the top of a hill. Mustard gas is heavier than air and will settle in low-lying areas, such as ditches and basements.

Hold your breath and head to a safer spot: Try to hold your breath without breathing in first. Hold your breath until you can get to a safer spot. If you are outside, go inside. Close all the doors and windows. Shut off heating or air conditioning to keep outside air from coming in.

Wash your skin, hair, and eyes: Wash your hands before you touch your eyes. It is important to wash the chemical off your skin right away. Remove your clothes and place them into a plastic bag. Shower as soon as possible to wash the chemical off your skin. Use soap if it is available. Gently rinse your skin. Do not scrub your skin. If the chemical got into your eyes, run water into your eyes for 10 to 15 minutes. Put on clean clothes and shoes.

When should I seek immediate care?

Seek care immediately or call 911 if:

You think you have been exposed to mustard gas. Do not wait for signs and symptoms to appear.

Care Agreement

You have the right to help plan your care. Learn about your health condition and how it may be treated. Discuss treatment options with your caregivers to decide what care you want to receive. You always have the right to refuse treatment. The above information is an educational aid only. It is not intended as medical advice for individual conditions or treatments. Talk to your doctor, nurse or pharmacist before following any medical regimen to see if it is safe and effective for you.

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Your agenda is clear. Optimal health and great sex at age 100. Be careful with what you put into yourself. Men should follow the Serge Kreutz diet. Women are more disposable and will sooner or later be replaced bylove robots.

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